Are All Sins Equal?


The word leaves a bad taste in your mouth, especially in today’s culture. It’s become politically incorrect to talk about the “antiquated”, “religious” word.

Friends, it breaks my heart to see the division in our country and in our churches. A big culprit for the division is that we are judging others by quantifying the degree of what we consider erroneous behavior—or what the church calls sinful behavior.

Take for example homosexuality (LGBTQ). I bring this subject up because it’s a source of such contention inside and outside the church. All one must do is watch the news and we know this issue has great relevance. There is an enormous chasm between many in the conservative church and those that are deemed liberal. Some say homosexuality is a sin, others don’t agree. As a Bible-believing Christian, there is something that has me very concerned: the levels and degrees of importance we are placing on “certain” sins.

I think we must start with the word sin itself.

What does the word sin really mean?

Here is how Merriam-Webster’s Dictionary defines sin:

a :  an offense against religious or moral law

b :  an action that is or is felt to be highly reprehensible it’s a sin to waste food

c :  an often serious shortcoming:  fault.

How does God define sin?

The Bible describes sin as transgression (violation) of the law (1 John 3:4) and rebellion against God (Deuteronomy 9:7; Joshua 1:18).

Sin is not doing the things we should (according to God’s law) and doing things we should not. These are known as sins of omission and submission. In essence, sin is anything that falls short of God’s standard of perfection.

Since no one is perfect (like God) we ALL fall short. “For everyone has sinned; we all fall short of God’s glorious standard.” (Romans 3:23 NLT)

So, we are all equally guilty of sin—but are all sins equal?

I have heard Christians and non-Christians say that a sin is a sin. One sin is no worse than the other.

In Matthew 5:27-28, Jesus equates looking at a woman lustfully with committing adultery in your heart. That certainly makes it appear the two are equal on the “sin scale”. But is this really what Jesus meant? No. Jesus was saying that lust and adultery are both sins. Sin is still sin even if you only want to do the act, without actually carrying it out.  In fact, adultery begins with lust.

In John 19:11 Jesus says, “You would have no power over me at all unless it were given to you from above. So, the one who handed me over to you has the greater sin.” (emphasis mine)

Look at Luke 12:46-48 “The master will return unannounced and unexpected, and he will cut the servant in pieces and banish him with the unfaithful. And a servant who knows what the master wants, but isn’t prepared and doesn’t carry out those instructions, will be severely punished.  But someone who does not know, and then does something wrong, will be punished only lightly. When someone has been given much, much will be required in return; and when someone has been entrusted with much, even more will be required.”

The awareness of sin and intent are factors that affect the magnitude of the sin as shown in James 4:17 “Remember, it is sin to know what you ought to do and then not do it.”

The Bible clearly teaches there is a difference in levels of sin.

So, we can easily agree that stealing printer paper from work is not as bad as murder. We all have experienced the consequences of our own sin or the sin of others. We can see from the passage in Luke above, consequences range from severely punished to only lightly. There are plenty of cases in life where it would seem one does not receive his “due” whether for doing something good or committing a sin. But we must keep in mind the one administering the punishments (and rewards) is the Master Jesus—the only true and just judge who will return in His own time to dispense the judgment (Matthew 25:31-46).

Even though some sins are greater than others, however, any sin separates us from God. “For the person who keeps all of the laws except one is as guilty as a person who has broken all of God’s laws.” James 4:10 (emphasis mine)

You see, God never quantifies guilt. You are either guilty or innocent.

 The fact is, when it comes to sin, we are all guilty.

Let’s get real for a minute. If you’ve thought lustfully about someone you’re not married to, if you’ve lied, or if you’ve cheated, if you’ve stolen something—no matter what sin it is, you’re guilty. This means if you believe the Bible says homosexuality is a sin, you are just as guilty of sin as someone in that lifestyle. Why? Because we are all sinners.

BUT . . .

The remedy for sin remains the same: GRACE

And grace from God is available to every single human being.

“Yet God, with undeserved kindness, declares that we are righteous. He did this through Christ Jesus when he freed us from the penalty for our sins.” Romans 3:24

God loves us so much that He sent Jesus to pay for our guilty sins. “For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life through Christ Jesus our Lord.” Romans 6:23

But despite our sin, God wants a relationship with us. So, what did He do? He made a way for us to be free of the guilt and separation that sin causes. That way is Jesus.

I’m asking myself and I’m asking you to do something radical.


If you are a born again Christian, you are still a sinner. The only difference between you and someone without Christ is grace. That same grace is available to all. Church, can we please stop perpetuating the divide between Christians and homosexuals? The answer is to accept them as a fellow sinner. Accepting all people despite their race, gender, sexual orientation or whatever difference is the way of Jesus.

Does this mean we are accepting the lifestyle of sin? Of course not. We don’t accept a drug addict’s life style of sinful behavior, but we do accept and love the person. We extend to them the same grace God offered us. When they sense our true love for them and not just a pointing finger, they are much more likely to accept the gift of grace offered through Christ. Then we direct them to the life-changing and life-saving Word of God to do the teaching and the judging. Take a look:

Every Scripture passage is inspired by God. All of them are useful for teaching, pointing out errors, correcting people, and training them for a life that has God’s approval. They equip God’s servants so that they are completely prepared to do good things.”
2 Timothy 3:16-17

You see, it is the Lord’s kindness that leads us to repentance. (Romans 2:4)

The grace we have been given should make us want to share it with the world rather than judge it. When we look soberly and see ourselves as just one beggar sharing bread with another beggar, we are living out the mission of the love of Christ.

Although all sins are not equal, the solution to sin is the same: Jesus

I’d love to hear your comments below. I welcome a discussion with respectful and clean language. Thanks.

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10 thoughts on “ARE ALL SINS EQUAL?”

  1. Beckie — thanks for hitting on a topic some like to brush under the table. I love the way your tells us the only way to receive forgiveness from sin is throug Christ. Sin is out to destroy us — but we can claim victory in the Lord. Love the sinner, despise the sin. Nice post.

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  2. a good treatise on sin. Sin is missing the mark…. My perception was that it didnt matter if it was a big or a small sin. In GOD’s eyes they are the same, but in man’s eyes there can be a big difference. Murder is not on the same scale as stealing a gum


    1. CurryNcode, Yes, we are all guilty of sin-there is no quantifying that. But scripture shows us there are sins of omission and commission and some are greater sins. Your example about murder and gum is perfect. The point is, we like to compare our sins to others, elevating ourselves as if we are somehow “not as bad”. The fact still remains, we are all sinners. We all need Jesus-the murder as well as the gum stealer 🙂

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  3. Amen, Beckie! Indeed, we have all sinned and have fallen short of God’s expectations. We should ever be aware that it is only by His grace that we are saved. And instead of judging others, we should choose to love the person in spite of their sin.
    Excellently expressed here, my friend!

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    1. Thanks, Martha! I’ve been guilty of judging someone’s sin and forgetting that grace is the only difference. May we not take our grace for granted and be so moved by the radical love of God that we share that grace with others. Imagine how the world would change!

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  4. While i agree with the conclusion of this post on sin and how scripture/God views it, there is one thing that has been left out. I’m a bit disappointed since the title of the post sounded like there would be some clarity. That is, God views all of our sin as the same, but the consequences of different sins here on Earth are not the same. Drunkenness is one thing, but a DUI that results in the death of somebody else is altogether different. How LGBTQ mental disorders affect society and the basis of society (The family unit) has yet to be understood. I believe God condemns it in a more severe way than many other sins…. Why would carry out the destruction of an entire city caught up in sexual perversion verses murder where the penalty is death of the person? Merely sentencing them to death was not adequate and the destruction of everything related to their perversion was necessary.


    1. Jeff, I want to thank you for your thought-provoking comment. I agree with your line of reasoning. Because of your comment, I felt the need to add two sections to this post that I think covers your point about consequences and judgment.The first one comes just below the quote in bold “The Bible clearly teaches there is a difference in levels of sin.” The second one is beneath the little box with my picture and quote on Twitter about mid-way through. Let me know if you have further thoughts to share. I welcome discussions that are respectful and will edify the body of Christ.


  5. Thanks for calling this out, Beckie. I think some people forget that judging others is also a sin, and it hurts my heart to see people reject Christ because they feel judged by the body of Christ.
    I really appreciate your distinction between sin (which has degrees) and guilt (which doesn’t). That was a great explanation.

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  6. Carol, it hurts my heart to see the division in our country, in our churches, and our families. Love covers a multitude of sins if we’d just allow God to help us see others the way He does.
    Thanks for taking time to comment. I’m glad you found this post helpful.


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